From this I
developed a shared budget that Eric and I use together. Its one workbook (one
file) and it has three sheets. One for items we share the cost of, one sheet
for him and one sheet for me. At the end of the month it balances how much we
each spent on "shared" items (Dinner out, Utilities, Rent, Bus
tickets to Seoul etc) and the difference so we can pay the other back. I've
honestly always wondered how successful married couples split finances or share
money. I know its one of the biggest contension points in relationships and
this is what we do. We share most food even though I normally eat all the
tomatoes, because in the end what's mine is his and his, mine. I think the main
reason we still seperate our money is because when I buy him a present I don't
want it to be from his own money (that seems wrong) and if we share anything
that is how it would be. It also makes it easier when I buy something I don't think he would want
to spend money on (like the chocolate muffins I buy and eat at school that he
never sees).
So to get to
the point here I've decided to give you the templates for my budget sheets. I've talked to a couple of people who
expressed mild interest, and thats enough for me :D I'll also include
instructions because I'm good at that.
How to get the sheets for yourself? Click on the links (below). I've made these publicly shared google docs so you can see them. You have two options.
Option 1: click File and choose the "Make a copy" option. This will copy it as a private file for yourself. You can then use it on your own and make new copies for each month or however often you want. (You might need a gmail account for this)
Option 2: click file and choose the "download as" option. This option works if you have an excel program on your computer. (You might need some form of excel for this, but the old version would probably work)
All my
budget sheets have different categories to differentiate what you spend money
on. The categories I have are food, travel(when I lived in America this column
was for gas), important (rent, utilites, medical, college loans, etc), misc.
(shampoo, toilet bowl cleaner, etc), Fun (Concerts, new clothes not for work,
going out, anything extraneous, I also include going out to eat in this
category because its expensive and not actually necessary). What it is goes in
the color column. The price goes in the white title column. These add up at the
bottom to show how much you spend each month on the different categories. The
green column on the right is your income. Green is where it comes from. If you
have multiple jobs or get several checks per month (I just copy a new spread
sheet for each new month) it has plenty of space for that. In the white put in the
amount you make. There is a seperate spread sheet I'll include for servers,
because server and bartender income work a little differently than other jobs.
On the side in yellow, is a summary of earned, spent, and saved.
At the bottom of the personal spread sheet there
are numbers to help keep you on track for spending goals. The number above the
black line is your total spent so far. The number directly below it is the
amount of money you have left out of your allowed spending limit. The number
below that is the allowed spending limit. The third number is the one you can
change. I have them set at random numbers, but everyone has different finances.
If you usually spend $300 on food you
can change the limit to that. If this confuses you, you can delete the bottom
two numbers. DO NOT DELETE THE NUMBER ABOVE THE BLACK LINE. Those numbers add your
total spending, without them the spread sheet is kind of pointless.
The
server/bartender spreadsheet has a space to put each shift and the date worked,
so you can see what you make on average per shift or note what shifts you make
more on. This also makes it so you don't have to add tip income from one day to
the next, just put it in and forget about it :D
The shared budget is for people who share their financial
responsibilities with someone else. The
first sheet is the shared sheet. Like I mentioned earlier it is for things that
are split down the middle. This helps to minimize the "Did I pay you back
for that?" or the scrambling to make sure I pay you back in cash right now
for the dinner we just ate together. It relieves stress due to money sharing
(or at least that is why I designed it). It works best if you can trust your
partner enough to pay you back at the end of the month and you both spend money
on shared things. Ours usually evens out to a pretty low number (under $50). The
Green part is for one person, and the Blue part is for the other. These have
the same categories of food, travel, important, misc, fun. These columns are
added up on the side and then some fancy math shows what person 1 owes person 2.
I have left our names on it (which you can change of course). So Eric enters in
the green (the first column is for what the second is for the amount) and I
enter into the blue. At the end of the month is shows how much Eric owes me. If
it is a negative number, I owe him that much. The second page is person 1. (you
can change the page name by right clicking and choosing the rename option). The
third page is person 2. These pages are the same as the personal spreadsheets with
one new addition. The shared budgets are added to the bottom split in half. It
is important not to write in these boxes on the individual sheets as it will
erase the formulas, and then the math and totals will not work.
Eric and I have the shared budget on a shared google
document. That way we can access it from work and separate computers when we are
at home.
ANYWAY I really hope
you find this useful. After all knowledge is power, right?
Oh right, if you have any questions you can email me or leave a comment, or look it up on youtube, or whatever. I also have versions for a couple of money conversions and etc. if anyone is interested. OK THX BYE
So useful!! Thank you for posting this!
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